Do you love me because you need me or you need me because you love me?

Sometimes we really don’t know how to appreciate the things that our partner done just to make the relationship stronger. This are one of the most common reality of love were just too selfish.


This is because we are just focusing on the mistakes of what our partner done. Even giving thank you to the one who always saves the relationship we can never do that. And then if the partner left or giving up the relationship what the opposite do? Stay home, drinking alcohol and the most common crying. Where are we when the time they care and love us. We are just too blind we can’t even see how beautiful the word “LOVE” is.

That’s why we should always care to the one who always care to us. Love them like what they did to us.

“Love them and care for them show them how special are they in our life”

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~ by Frankie on 06/18/2010.

6 Responses to “Do you love me because you need me or you need me because you love me?”

  1. This is really hard to explain! Me. myself found this thingy a tail of love’s mystery. Good thing, you have posted this phrase! Interesting! Have you experience choosing between these contradicting “or” phrases?

    When your partner says “I love you because I need you!” No doubt! Your partner doesn’t love as you are. And Reverse is a good thing because your partner needs you in the power of love.

    I caught myself with your phrase “we are just focusing on the mistakes of what our partner done” because when I was in love – No mistakes at all! All the things done by my loved-one were correct and that even if she/he was wrong, I wanna be wrong with him/her too. Why is that like that? A real weird!

    To your thousands of viewers! let’s stop looking at the mistakes to our loved-one! Look at it with love to help them become who really they are.

    “Love them and care for them show them how special are they in our life” is such a nice advice.

    Caring is the most gentle expression of love.

    • Actually i haven’t experience this phrase yet but even if i haven’t experience this thing yet i will just drop a short comment about this. Me too i find this phrase difficult to answer but if i’m the person that is being asked in this kind of question i would rather answer it both, i need and love the person that i really love and that is for real.

      And in your third sentence. We’re just humans and we accidentally do wrong on our decisions sometimes that’s why we have our partner we have our parents to help us whenever we are experiencing this kind of thing they are there to teach us on how to solve this thing. But sometimes we don’t want others to educate us and this is what we called as “Pride” this is the reality of life we will just accept it.

      Yes i do agree of what have you shared to us that “Caring is the most gentle expression of love.”

      Will anyways thank you for dropping here again. God Bless!

  2. aw!!!
    super tinamaan ako dun…
    grabe!!!

    • Ah gnun bah? Welcome to my blog. Thank you for dropping a comment here in my blog. Hope to see you here again. 😀

  3. oa r frank…aw. affected rba di keu xa sa mga long distance relationships..yay! nainlabenz k sa sum1 n naa na karelasyon noh…aw joke

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